Caring for a Body at Home After Someone Have Died
When someone dies at home, especially if it’s expected, you may choose to spend some time with them before the body is moved. This can be a calm and important time for family and friends.
Here’s a simple guide on what you can do to care for the person and honour them in your own way.
You do not legally need a funeral director to care for someone who has died. Here’s how to do it at home safely and gently:
It’s legal to keep a body at home after someone has died, but the law says it must be cared for in a clean and respectful way. In most cases, it’s best not to keep the body at home for more than 1 to 2 days. If you’re unsure what to do, an End of Life Doula or someone with experience can help guide you.
Step 1: Prepare the Room
- Choose a cool, quiet space away from direct sunlight and heating.
- Open a window slightly for ventilation if weather permits.
- Lay down plastic sheeting or absorbent pads under the bed or body.
Step 2: Clean and Dress the Body
- Wash the body gently with warm water and mild soap. You may use essential oils or rosewater, if culturally or spiritually appropriate.
- Close the eyes and mouth (you may use a soft cloth tied under the chin to help keep the mouth closed).
- Dress in meaningful clothes: pyjamas, a favourite outfit, or ceremonial garments.
Step 3: Cooling the Body
- Use ice packs or cooling blankets, especially around the torso.
- Replace ice every 12–24 hours.
- Keep the room cool — close curtains during hot days.
Step 4: Monitor the Body
- Some natural changes occur (skin colour, stiffness, odour). This is normal.
- Check the body daily and adjust cooling as needed.
Caring for a body at home can be a wonderfully rewarding and personal way to say a final goodbye to Someone you love.